I am 33 and married for 7 amazing years. The lucky guy is my best friend and soul mate of 15 years.
We dated for 8 years and had our dream wedding 7 years ago.
We bought our own home the year we wed. No help from parents or long lost wealthy relatives…we did it on our own. Definitely a very proud moment in our lives.
Now comes the question that every person has been asking us “When are the babies coming???”
I don’t know if this is an indian thing or if all cultures have the same pressures.
Once upon a time..it was normal for people to be married by 26, have the dream house (white picket fence included) aling with 2.5 kids.
These days things have changed. We have career goals, travel dreams and many adventure to go on before having a kids.
Asking someone when they are having kids is such a personal question…may as well come right out and ask “When you are having sex!”
After many years of being asked this question, i still look like a deer caught in the headlights when the subject comes up.
I don’t see why I should actually answer this question…the choice to reproduce is between spouses.
Its not like I don’t ever want kids (i love them and they love me) but i want to have a kid when we are ready and not when we are required to.
Is this the norm these days?
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